By a member of SEND’s Diaspora | North America
team
"Daddy, I want a tree! Can we get a tree, please? Please can we get a tree? Daddy, we need a Christmas tree!" As the young refugee son pleaded with his father, the father looked at us. "He really wants a tree, what can I say? Ok, I will get you a tree. It is not our custom, but I will get you a tree." As we reflect back over Christmas and all the various customs and traditions that have entered into the season, which ones are most helpful to you? Which ones draw you in and point you to Christ?
How confusing it must be to Muslims newly arriving in our country. In America, almost everyone celebrates Christmas, which is a Christian holiday. So everyone must be a Christian, right? Well actually, we have to explain to these new arrivals that not everyone who celebrates Christmas is a Christian. Actually, only about 20% of the people celebrating Christmas are Christians. In Matthew 12, Jesus talks about recognizing a tree by its fruit. Would someone know you are a Christian by the fruit of your life? How would they know that you are different from the other 80% celebrating Christmas? Whether we are sharing with a new refugee or a neighbor or colleague at work, what is it that sets us apart? Following Jesus' words is a good place to start: first, we demonstrate our love for God, and second, we demonstrate our love for our neighbor.
Is there a vibrant love for God in your life? There is no better time than the beginning of a new year to reaffirm our love for God. And while we are at it, let’s ask him to help us love our neighbors too! While there is nothing wrong with having family traditions at Christmastime, we need to make sure that Christ shines brightest. And this should be true for the rest of the year as well. As the Christmas tree ornaments are taken down and carefully packed away for another year, we can remind ourselves that the event of Christmas - Emmanuel - God with us - is actually a year-round celebration. Christ came as the ultimate missionary, he entered our world, identified with us, he loved God and he loved his neighbors as he served and suffered. All that we might have life!
Look for and take the opportunity to find either a newly arrived refugee or someone who has been here longer, but is still isolated. Share with them God’s love by being a friend to them. Let God shine his grace and mercy through you into their lives through simple things like just being kind and helpful.